oyasumi-artykun said: What did sjwstupidity's icon look like again? And is there a master post and what exactly he did?
He moved to antisjwranting but someone else took his sjwstupidity URL and has a view explaining everything. feduptoinfinity may be able to help as well.
The Nice Guy who was @antisjwranting/and over here before I snagged it changed his URL again, because he’s a Nice, Sensitive Guy who would cry a little if he lost any more faith/followers.
But it’s important, because Nice Guys like him don’t give up very easily. Nice Guys who run from responsibilities/culpability after they’ve been shown to do something naughty (like get off with an underaged girl that they barely know online, or get off to topless “friends” they barely know/aren’t in a relationship with) tend to continue their abhorrent behavior. Nice Guys like him are the real predators, who don’t give a damn about who you are or what your problems are, they just want to emotionally manipulate you so that they can get off to your n00dz. If he were a different type of Nice Guy, he would show humility, suck it up, admit to his wrongdoings, and promise to work on changing.
But he’s a 37-year-old Nice Guy. This behavior is seriously messed up. I don’t know him very well, but I’ve seen what he’s written (more than the videos show). He befriended the young girl (from the video), blathering on about their common interests, blathering on about his depression, and then used that depression/patheticness to urge said “friend” to “help him out” when some other girl he was talking dirty to fell asleep on him. When she wasn’t all enthused about it and said it was late, he whined about it being “the perfect time/horny time”. I’m not directly quoting here, but it’s like he was all “Please…you’re my friend, I like you, you know how depressed I am/we are, you’d just be helping me out…” And then afterwards when she clearly expressed how uncomfortable she was when she did it (and blamed HERSELF because she said it was her choice, even though she was manipulated into doing it), he didn’t just stop and say, “Oh my God, I’m so sorry…I didn’t realize how horribly uncomfortable it made you.” He made this mealy-mouthed comment where he said he was disappointed because she mentioned her kneesocks and underwear and didn’t intend to show him. There is something very wrong about that, and at 37-years-old, if he does not understand that that is wrong and manipulative (guilting a friend), then it’s probably not going to sink in unless he gets professional help to comprehend it. I can see that if he were perhaps 15 or 20 years younger that maybe he would have a chance at truly changing his mindset and behavior, but the guy is almost 40. Those things are hard to change at that age.
So that Nice Guy that some of his female friends here on Tumblr defend is, truly, not a very Nice Guy. Nothing he has to say about “anti-sjw” sentiments is relevant, though this entire incident gives us a flavor as to how this one Nice Guy treats the women he meets. Anti-sjws, like me, hate the SJWs and Tumblrfeminists because they go overboard in a huge way. We are aware of how people should be treated, and it’s not all a matter of gender, but it does have to do with common sense, respect, and propriety. Women should not hate men on principle, and men should not hate women on principle. But there are bad people amongst us humans, i.e. people who manipulate, lie, and threaten others for their own selfish reasons. That Nice Guy is quite the manipulator (by what he did to Klokateercatlady), liar (and manipulator, by producing the fake screencap to poison people’s thinking against Klok’s screencaps; and thus declaring without declaring that he “didn’t write what she said he wrote”), and threatener (by threatening to release the video that he took of her topless/took without her knowledge to 4chan). He uses the fact that he’s depressed to gain sympathy (as his last post that some of us saw demonstrated).
Depression is a terrible thing. Lots of us suffer from it, for some reason or an other. But in this case, I personally believe that Nice Guy has every reason to be depressed, and if he doesn’t change his ways, he will continue to be depressed and continue to use it to “get what he wants”, hurting and scaring more young women along the way.
And if his female followers continue to support him, well…that’s on them for excusing his behavior like that. As much as you like a person for what he says/the issues you agree with him on, you should really consider what kind of person you choose to associate with when it’s discovered that he’s not-so-Nice a Guy. And if you do it without even once saying “Hey dude, I saw what happened. If you did this, and I’m not saying that you did or that I believe it either way, then I really think you need to check yourself/get some help, because that’s some heavy shit.”, then you’re really just enabling more of the same behavior. Shit like this stinks and affects all those who stand around it.
So I’ve seen, and been a part of, this call out/blast. It’s now his turn to come out of his hidey hole, take responsibility, and make the changes needed in order to become a better man. If he could do that, then maybe he might gain back some of the respect he lost. But in my experience, people like that Nice Guy don’t do that at that age. They just continue being not-so-Nice Guys (or Gals, because there are women who behave like this too).