September 27, 2014

oyasumi-artykun said: What did sjwstupidity's icon look like again? And is there a master post and what exactly he did?

vividolly:

He moved to antisjwranting but someone else took his sjwstupidity URL and has a view explaining everything. feduptoinfinity may be able to help as well.

The Nice Guy who was @antisjwranting/and over here before I snagged it changed his URL again, because he’s a Nice, Sensitive Guy who would cry a little if he lost any more faith/followers.

But it’s important, because Nice Guys like him don’t give up very easily.  Nice Guys who run from responsibilities/culpability after they’ve been shown to do something naughty (like get off with an underaged girl that they barely know online, or get off to topless “friends” they barely know/aren’t in a relationship with) tend to continue their abhorrent behavior.  Nice Guys like him are the real predators, who don’t give a damn about who you are or what your problems are, they just want to emotionally manipulate you so that they can get off to your n00dz.  If he were a different type of Nice Guy, he would show humility, suck it up, admit to his wrongdoings, and promise to work on changing.

But he’s a 37-year-old Nice Guy.  This behavior is seriously messed up.  I don’t know him very well, but I’ve seen what he’s written (more than the videos show).  He befriended the young girl (from the video), blathering on about their common interests, blathering on about his depression, and then used that depression/patheticness to urge said “friend” to “help him out” when some other girl he was talking dirty to fell asleep on him.  When she wasn’t all enthused about it and said it was late, he whined about it being “the perfect time/horny time”.  I’m not directly quoting here, but it’s like he was all “Please…you’re my friend, I like you, you know how depressed I am/we are, you’d just be helping me out…”  And then afterwards when she clearly expressed how uncomfortable she was when she did it (and blamed HERSELF because she said it was her choice, even though she was manipulated into doing it), he didn’t just stop and say, “Oh my God, I’m so sorry…I didn’t realize how horribly uncomfortable it made you.”  He made this mealy-mouthed comment where he said he was disappointed because she mentioned her kneesocks and underwear and didn’t intend to show him.  There is something very wrong about that, and at 37-years-old, if he does not understand that that is wrong and manipulative (guilting a friend), then it’s probably not going to sink in unless he gets professional help to comprehend it.  I can see that if he were perhaps 15 or 20 years younger that maybe he would have a chance at truly changing his mindset and behavior, but the guy is almost 40.  Those things are hard to change at that age.

So that Nice Guy that some of his female friends here on Tumblr defend is, truly, not a very Nice Guy.  Nothing he has to say about “anti-sjw” sentiments is relevant, though this entire incident gives us a flavor as to how this one Nice Guy treats the women he meets.  Anti-sjws, like me, hate the SJWs and Tumblrfeminists because they go overboard in a huge way.  We are aware of how people should be treated, and it’s not all a matter of gender, but it does have to do with common sense, respect, and propriety.  Women should not hate men on principle, and men should not hate women on principle.  But there are bad people amongst us humans, i.e. people who manipulate, lie, and threaten others for their own selfish reasons.  That Nice Guy is quite the manipulator (by what he did to Klokateercatlady), liar (and manipulator, by producing the fake screencap to poison people’s thinking against Klok’s screencaps;  and thus declaring without declaring that he “didn’t write what she said he wrote”), and threatener (by threatening to release the video that he took of her topless/took without her knowledge to 4chan).  He uses the fact that he’s depressed to gain sympathy (as his last post that some of us saw demonstrated).

Depression is a terrible thing.  Lots of us suffer from it, for some reason or an other.  But in this case, I personally believe that Nice Guy has every reason to be depressed, and if he doesn’t change his ways, he will continue to be depressed and continue to use it to “get what he wants”, hurting and scaring more young women along the way. 

And if his female followers continue to support him, well…that’s on them for excusing his behavior like that.  As much as you like a person for what he says/the issues you agree with him on, you should really consider what kind of person you choose to associate with when it’s discovered that he’s not-so-Nice a Guy.  And if you do it without even once saying “Hey dude, I saw what happened.  If you did this, and I’m not saying that you did or that I believe it either way, then I really think you need to check yourself/get some help, because that’s some heavy shit.”, then you’re really just enabling more of the same behavior.  Shit like this stinks and affects all those who stand around it.

So I’ve seen, and been a part of, this call out/blast.  It’s now his turn to come out of his hidey hole, take responsibility, and make the changes needed in order to become a better man.  If he could do that, then maybe he might gain back some of the respect he lost.  But in my experience, people like that Nice Guy don’t do that at that age.  They just continue being not-so-Nice Guys (or Gals, because there are women who behave like this too).

September 27, 2014

vividolly said: Wait wait Chris is 37? Thirty-fucking-seven?????? He's old enough to be klok's dad almost!

capricornicis:

darksunsao:

magicallymisanthropic:

feduptoinfinity:

klokateercatlady:

fuckthefearturkey:

Apparently so, yes.

Lol I’m not and was not a teen when this happened, I also never claimed to be. I was 22 at the time and I’m 23 now.

People just assumed.

I hope my age doesn’t make what he did null and void or any less serious. 

37 is still rather old to be coercing girls half his age into showing their breasts. Also, according to another user, she was 16 when he was creepy with her. 

The age of the girls he was creeping on shouldn’t matter. What he did was fucked up on so many levels.

I can’t tell you how nostalgic it makes me feel to hear about this guy again. He has a long history of being insanely creepy with women, though. He drew porn of himself and his best friend and showed it to her, and refused to either apologize, take down the picture, or stop being touchy-feely with her. what do you expect from a guy like that? 

He wanted me to draw porn of myself at one point for his birthday. Took it as birthday.

Nice Guys like that are so nice.  How nice is it to draw pr0n of yourself with your friend and then show it to said friend?  I hope it was furry pr0n, because nothing’s nicer than anthropr0n of yourself and your friend.

September 27, 2014

I just wanted to clarify that I’m not the Nice Guy who owned this Super Duper Nice URL last week.  I’m a different Nice Guy who saw the opportunity to snag a Super Duper Nice URL that I’ve coveted since the days of Crystal Pepsi and Hypercolor t-shirts.

You will love me, because I’m a Nice Guy who doesn’t ask for n00dz.  I’m not looking for any hookups or casual encounters.  I’m not looking for anything, really.

Except justice.  Maybe justice.   Not the type Tumblr SJWs go after, though.  Because like the other Nice Guy, I can’t stand SJWs.  But I’m not a sleazebag with the come-ons of a 12-year-old boy.

September 27, 2014
Once every decade or every other decade I can manipulate enough facts to escape all my responsibilities for another decade or two…but then the next moment I get dragged through the next thing and have to do it all over again so I don’t lose any followers.  I wish I could keep a sweet young girl motivated enough not to fall asleep on me when I need to get off….

Once every decade or every other decade I can manipulate enough facts to escape all my responsibilities for another decade or two…but then the next moment I get dragged through the next thing and have to do it all over again so I don’t lose any followers.  I wish I could keep a sweet young girl motivated enough not to fall asleep on me when I need to get off….

September 27, 2014

Anonymous said: wait what happened with sjwstupidity

brbcheckingmyprivilege:

fuckthefearturkey:

A friend of mine had responded to an ask about him that was saying he wasn’t a good person. My friend had said she didn’t know him much to comment. Another friend klokateercatlady had responded saying that she had dealt with him in the past and the anon was right. When people asked for proof she provided copy/pasted comments from him in a Skype conversation to her response. When there was still skepticism, she posted screencaps of him generally being a creep.

When that wasn’t enough, her other friend someonebluecaughtmyattention (not able to tag for some reason) posted a video where they had recorded the thread that was saved by Skype of the conversation between sjwstupidity and klokateercatlady after he had gotten her to show him her breasts. She fully accepts responsibility for her actions however even after she told him she was uncomfortable doing that ever again, he told her he felt it wasn’t fair that she was talking about wearing cat face knee highs without showing him.

Furthermore, when she later confided in him about fearing for her life because of a stalker who knew her home address and her school address and her phone number, he asked if the stalker “pinned you [her] down and raped you [her] in every orifice, if not i don’t really give a fuck.” After that they had a falling out when he told her about a girl that he’d been with who then acted distant. He asked her to be honest and she was and they broke their, at this point, tenuous friendship. 

However, even with all the video proof and the screencaps, klokateercatlady is still being called a slut and there are people on his side that are saying he’s innocent, even after seeing the evidence. 

I understand that they want their friend to be innocent, but you can’t fucking ignore that video. You can’t ignore where he said he got what he wanted from her (her breasts) or mocked her fear, or asked if she was raped or else he didn’t care. He is an asshole and he isn’t a good or nice person.

..and I was not told ages fuck I dont even know your age I guessed you were legal but I guess you could be a minor fuck knows I know in england 16 is legal how ever it is still regarded as geneally sick for some old dude his age to do that..I also wasnt aware of his age until I asked the question is he 37 cos i saw that some where and some one replied saying he was because that does make it worse like he should know better than to prey on younger girls especially if as you said there were some who were 16 which in some areas is illegal. Also again check the post i reblogged before this..

I just wanted to say that the varying Age of Consent for soliciting sexual acts is nonexistent online—it’s 18 across the boards.  They treat it like child pornography, so it’s not okay for an of-age person to do dirty things with an underaged person online (loads of laws cover this).

So “Klokateer” might not have been underage, but the other girl was (see my previous post).

September 27, 2014

webgrief:

sjwstupidity:

The dude who used  be a Nice Guy filed a complaint with YouTube over the first video that exposed his Nice Guy antics because that’s not an admission of guilt at all, ssssoooooo, here is a second video (not to worry, this will allll be sorted out).

Anyhoooo.  Context.  This is why this guy flipped his shit (it’s not part of the video, but for God’s sake, don’t make me freaking go back and make the video, just…I’ve seen it, it’s there in the chat history):

[2013-11-23, 9:29:49 PM] Chris: I asked ‘cos I was trying to get nudes from crabby cavies before hand…before I ever realized SHE would like me…
[2013-11-23, 9:30:08 PM] Chris: and that only came to fruition after she made it clear she felt affection for me and I was like “shitfuckfuckfuckfuck”
[2013-11-23, 9:30:43 PM] Chris: so crabby cavies and I fooled around 1 nite and then she got all weird…weirder than you even ‘cos at least you still talk to me
[2013-11-23, 9:31:11 PM] OriTheScribe: what do you mean weird?
[2013-11-23, 9:31:23 PM] Chris: I mean she doesn’t speak to me at all now.
[2013-11-23, 9:31:48 PM] OriTheScribe: well do you want me to be truthful or to mix truth with other stuff so it’s less brutal?
[2013-11-23, 9:32:01 PM] Chris: be truthful
[2013-11-23, 9:32:04 PM] Chris: you don’t wanna talk to me either
[2013-11-23, 9:32:06 PM] Chris: right?

[2013-11-23, 9:32:08 PM] OriTheScribe: no
[2013-11-23, 9:32:12 PM] OriTheScribe: to be truthful
[2013-11-23, 9:33:47 PM] OriTheScribe: the problem is that you come off as needy and kind of annoying. Like, if someone tells you they are depressed then what’s the point of telling them how you feel so sorry for them or how life must suck or that other hooey because they don’t do things you think is nessicarry. Like sex or being on the comp all day. You gotta learn to let people be and that not everyone will respond right away when on skype
[2013-11-23, 9:36:21 PM] OriTheScribe: your gal pal might be distancing herself due to that and because you come off as a lil bit….creepy. Like, my discomfort was apparent long before I showed you my tits and during even. Now imma chalk that up to probably not being all that good with emotions or something cus lots of people I know arn’t 100 with social or emotions (myself included). But maybe it would be better for you two if you spent more time trying to figure out when she’s uncomfortable (but not saying so) so you can stop and she feels better. might build more trust

Crabby caveat:  No one’s looking for attention here.  No one’s crying or  whining except for Nice Guy and his cronies/fangirls/hoes.   This, actually, was requested of me and the victim of his abuse because all of the Doubting Tumblrinas are bitching that she’s making it up or faking screencaps.  My role in this is just to help a friend out, and to help alert girls towards this kind of manipulative, predatory behavior.  Guilt tripping is manipulative.  What he did was manipulative.  And uhm—as I was in my own online relationship with someone as a committed boyfriend, THIS wasn’t even within the context of an actual online relationship, and yet he behaves like an entitled boyfriend.  It’s gross, he’s gross, and he needs to man up—at 37 years of age—and grow up/stop hounding younger girls for jackoff material.  Or at least stay on Motherless/stop doing it on Tumblr.

Uhhh…eww. i never said i liked sjws, i didnt even know sjws, i was 16 and i was vulnerable and he was giving me attention.
Things got out of hand and i told him to stop contacting me and i stopped talking to him. Thats it. He said i was being weird and that we had a connection but we didnt.

Please note the bold. 

So unfortunately the Nice Guy is somehow unaware of child pornography laws in Canada, not to mention “Child Luring”, which is this:

"We are concerned on this appeal with legislation adopted by Parliament to shut that door on predatory adults who, generally for a sexual purpose, troll the Internet for vulnerable children and adolescents.  Shielded by the anonymity of an assumed online name and profile, they aspire to gain the trust of their targeted victims through computer “chats” — and then to tempt or entice them into sexual activity, over the Internet or, still worse, in person.

172.1(1)(a)
The crown should prove the following elements:

  1. accused communicated by means of a computer system (see s. 342.1(2))
  2. the accused communicated to a person who
    1. is under the age of 18 or
    2. is believed to be under the age of 18
  3. accused’s “specific purpose” in communicating is to facilitate the commission of a specified secondary offence with respect to the under-aged person. (specifically section 153(1), 155 or 163.1, 212(1) or (4), 271, 272 or 273)

172.1(1)(b)
The crown should prove the following elements:

  1. accused communicated by means of a computer system (see s. 342.1(2))
  2. the accused communicated to a person who
    1. is under the age of 16 or
    2. is believed to be under the age of 16
  3. accused’s “specific purpose” in communicating is to facilitate the commission of a specified secondary offence with respect to the under-aged person. (specifically section 151, 152, 160(3) or 173(2) or 280)”

You all get the picture.  Or rather, Nice Guy didn’t get the pictures, but he got gross with a girl under the age of 18 on the internet and when she wanted out, he said she was “being weird”.  Hoookay then.

September 27, 2014
I changed my userpic to something most apropos to represent the type of Nice Guy this blog’s about.  Because this face…is the face of a Nice Guy from Canada.

I changed my userpic to something most apropos to represent the type of Nice Guy this blog’s about.  Because this face…is the face of a Nice Guy from Canada.

September 27, 2014

The dude who used  be a Nice Guy filed a complaint with YouTube over the first video that exposed his Nice Guy antics because that’s not an admission of guilt at all, ssssoooooo, here is a second video (not to worry, this will allll be sorted out).

Anyhoooo.  Context.  This is why this guy flipped his shit (it’s not part of the video, but for God’s sake, don’t make me freaking go back and make the video, just…I’ve seen it, it’s there in the chat history):

[2013-11-23, 9:29:49 PM] Chris: I asked ‘cos I was trying to get nudes from crabby cavies before hand…before I ever realized SHE would like me…
[2013-11-23, 9:30:08 PM] Chris: and that only came to fruition after she made it clear she felt affection for me and I was like “shitfuckfuckfuckfuck”
[2013-11-23, 9:30:43 PM] Chris: so crabby cavies and I fooled around 1 nite and then she got all weird…weirder than you even ‘cos at least you still talk to me
[2013-11-23, 9:31:11 PM] OriTheScribe: what do you mean weird?
[2013-11-23, 9:31:23 PM] Chris: I mean she doesn’t speak to me at all now.
[2013-11-23, 9:31:48 PM] OriTheScribe: well do you want me to be truthful or to mix truth with other stuff so it’s less brutal?
[2013-11-23, 9:32:01 PM] Chris: be truthful
[2013-11-23, 9:32:04 PM] Chris: you don’t wanna talk to me either
[2013-11-23, 9:32:06 PM] Chris: right?

[2013-11-23, 9:32:08 PM] OriTheScribe: no
[2013-11-23, 9:32:12 PM] OriTheScribe: to be truthful
[2013-11-23, 9:33:47 PM] OriTheScribe: the problem is that you come off as needy and kind of annoying. Like, if someone tells you they are depressed then what’s the point of telling them how you feel so sorry for them or how life must suck or that other hooey because they don’t do things you think is nessicarry. Like sex or being on the comp all day. You gotta learn to let people be and that not everyone will respond right away when on skype
[2013-11-23, 9:36:21 PM] OriTheScribe: your gal pal might be distancing herself due to that and because you come off as a lil bit….creepy. Like, my discomfort was apparent long before I showed you my tits and during even. Now imma chalk that up to probably not being all that good with emotions or something cus lots of people I know arn’t 100 with social or emotions (myself included). But maybe it would be better for you two if you spent more time trying to figure out when she’s uncomfortable (but not saying so) so you can stop and she feels better. might build more trust

Crabby caveat:  No one’s looking for attention here.  No one’s crying or  whining except for Nice Guy and his cronies/fangirls/hoes.   This, actually, was requested of me and the victim of his abuse because all of the Doubting Tumblrinas are bitching that she’s making it up or faking screencaps.  My role in this is just to help a friend out, and to help alert girls towards this kind of manipulative, predatory behavior.  Guilt tripping is manipulative.  What he did was manipulative.  And uhm—as I was in my own online relationship with someone as a committed boyfriend, THIS wasn’t even within the context of an actual online relationship, and yet he behaves like an entitled boyfriend.  It’s gross, he’s gross, and he needs to man up—at 37 years of age—and grow up/stop hounding younger girls for jackoff material.  Or at least stay on Motherless/stop doing it on Tumblr.

September 25, 2014

Two followers already?  I think you will be sorely disappointed.

September 25, 2014

I’m not Claire Quilty Chris.

If you’re looking for a hot time with an older creepy basement dweller man who makes young girls uncomfortable with his classy “flirting”, you can find him here